I did not realize how powerful answering the questions you gave us and trying to map out answers would help. I have read and reviewed the questions over the last few days. I knew my strengths, what I was known for and what tasks I liked, but I did not realize nor see the commonalities among my bosses I worked well with so clearly until this evening.
Using symbols, paper and colored pencils also really helped me come to a new realization: when I feel isolated, unsupported or unable to help staff and students grow and develop I mentally check out and become unhappy and “plan my escape”.